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Are you an adult with High-Functioning Autism or Asperger’s? Are you struggling emotionally, socially, spiritually or otherwise? Then you’ve come to the right place. We are here to help you in any way we can. Kick off your shoes and stay awhile. If you are in a relationship with a man on the autism spectrum, you have probably noticed many of the traits listed below. And the affected person often has little – or no – control over most of these symptoms. This post is not designed to blame or ridicule men on the spectrum, and it should be noted that they do have more strengths than weaknesses which we discuss a lot on this site. But for the purposes of this post, we will focus on some of the features associated with AS that can negatively impact romantic relationships.

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From not even knowing if there was going to be one this year only three months ago, to what actually transpired, was quite a ride. The museum director noted that attendance at the Moon U. The stomp rockets that the Astronaut Training Center brought along were quite popular and there were foam rockets flying down at that end of the museum all day long. The art show of Comics in Space was well-received, as was the comet-building exercise in one of the Moon Academy classes.

Approximately 80% of grown-ups with Aspergers and High Functioning Autism (HFA) do not have full-time jobs – not because they can’t do the work, but because they often have difficulty being socially acceptable while they get the work done.

Today’s polar bear is superbly adapted to life in the Arctic Wolly mammoth cold adaptation The mammoth parted from Elephants in Africa million years ago. Artic fox cold adaptation The artic fox split off 3 million years ago. There is no compelling evidence for artificial warming with fires or tailormade clothes in Neanderthals. Therefore, Neanderthals most likely had fur. Without fur they would not be able to survive in Finland in between ice-ages, nor in Europe during the ice-ages.

There is a genetic difference called congenital hypertrichosis, which essentially is fur in modern humans. It’s interesting that this hair is unpigmented. People with congenital hypertrichosis also show long, prominent back of the nose and a round nose tip and lag in the development of the first and second dentition. It’s common with more body-hair in Europeans, and especially in people with autism.

It’s very probable that considerably less than 1. All three of the deepest branches of Mammalians have species that can hibernate. There is also an example of a primate species that can enter torpor.

The Neanderthal theory

However, the test still appears to be primarily a test for autistic traits. This is reflected in the statement that: The neurodiversity classification can be used to give a reliable indication of autism spectrum traits prior to eventual diagnosis. If you want to read more in detail about the development of the Aspie Quiz and what has changed over time, Leif Ekblad has published a paper detailing his research and a detailed history of the quiz.

Oct 15,  · Asperger’s syndrome is a neurobiological disorder considered to be part of the autism spectrum. The exact cause of the condition is unknown, although many experts believe there is a hereditary component. Asperger’s syndrome can affect people of all races and socioeconomic backgrounds, although it is three to four times more common among men.

Sensory Processing Disorder Questions Due to the sheer volume of questions submitted, It became impossible for Michele to keep up. However, all of the submissions that she was able to answer is listed below. Feel free to submit YOUR question if it has not already been addressed. If you submit a question, It will be posted up on the site unanswered, as soon as it is approved. From there, the floor is open. Just know that because of time constraints, Michele will NOT be able to answer specific questions from this point forward.

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Asperger’s Partners Speak

Granted, those are women sharing their experiences, however to be fair, men are experiencing a lot of this as well. Do you find yourself, much like Alice In Wonderland, attempting to peer into or jump through the looking glass, desperate for answers, while the man in your life seems to care less? I get a lot of questions posed to me from the post referenced above. When men behave peculiar towards women, women have a tendency to blame themselves.

While I generally agree with your point, I would like to point out a few parts of your quote from feministe: “A shy, but decent and caring man is quite likely to complain that he doesn’t get as much attention from women as he’d like.

May 29, at 3: Expected to be borderline at least. A bit like being a Jew in Nazi Germany although not quite that bad! So of course I try to avoid being in those situations as much as I can, which means avoiding my fellow man for the most part. I look at their mouth instead, to focus on what they are saying. It upsets me a lot if my routines are disturbed, especially if it involves doing something spontaneous.

I find it very difficult to do more than one thing at a time, and do frequently get so strongly absorbed in one thing that I lose sight of everything else. Sounds like Aspergers, right?

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In fact, for most of us, it just happens. One day we just realize it. We dream of escaping constantly. Life has a little bit less zing to it.

I thought this was a fun, practical book, and it ‘s one of the best books I’ve found on relationships with an aspie. Aston starts the book by discussing the aspie and NT as though they are different species.

A relationship with an Aspergers partner may take on more of the characteristics of a business partnership or arrangement. Although he genuinely loves his spouse, the Aspie does not know how to show this in a practical way sometimes. An Aspie is often attracted to someone who shares his interests or passions, and this can form a good basis for their relationship.

An Aspie needs time alone. Often the best thing the NT partner can do is give her Aspie the freedom of a few hours alone while she visits friends or goes shopping. An Aspie often has a particular interest or hobby.

15 tips for NT spouses

We were not talking the same language and misunderstandings were the rule. I learnt the hard way what Asperger Syndrome was. No other option seems available to us.

Positive, practical and realistic, this book offers a wealth of information on women, dating and relationships for men with Asperger Syndrome (AS).

A reference is also autism-help. Health injuries, similar to those seen by traumatic stress disorder, are common in the neurotypical partner. It is important that it is clear you have a choice. You are not responsible for your partner. You are however, responsible for yourself and your children. Nevertheless, if you assume a responsibility for your AS-partner, then make a careful decision as to what, how much and when.

It is you, who must set the distinct boundaries. Never expect your AS-partner to do it. A relationship between an NT spouse and an AS partner will always have the essence of an adult-child relationship. Take care of yourself Spouses of those with Aspergers often use so much time taking care of others, that their own needs are ignored — both by themselves and others. Decide what you need for yourself and how you can achieve it.

Intimacy and Romance in NT-AS relations

Post From the parent of an asperger’s child, now 21, who was adopted at age five. Our child was diagnosed at age five. God bless the therapist who asked the right questions Is she sensitive to smells? Our child would smell literally every spoon full of food, every book we read, everything she touched had to be smelled before we could move on with it. Is she sensitive to rough textures?

2. Talk. Routines and quirks from the female aspie can be very difficult to deal with for the NT partner. Talk about this. Don’t keep your feelings pent up about it, and ask if your aspie partner is willing to try and make minor changes.

Their intimate life with their loved one in marriage is private. If the relationship also contains heartbreaking secrets and deprivation, then it is harder to mention it to anyone else. The reality of an NT-AS relationship is that there will be many idiosyncrasies. In her research on sex in NT-AS relationships Maxine Aston found that fifty per cent of the couples reported, that there was no sexual activity within their relationship.

But there are also problems in relationships with two neurotypical partners, right? But that is not what this article is about. This article focuses on the situation for the normally NT functioning spouse. It is self-evident that all people are different. All people cannot be put into one general category. But some characteristics are said to be typical of every successful relationship: Communication and emotional reciprocity are often fundamental to whether a relationship works or not.

I Married an Aspie – A husband’s perspective on Asperger’s Syndrome

Helping my son is so much easier these days. I only wish I had found all of this out years ago. Although my story has a positive ending, I met many people during my research whose stories were not ending well. They were struggling to make it through each day, constantly sick with worry that something horrible would happen to their loved one before the Aspergers was brought under control. They were struggling to answer questions like:

If you feel neglected and lonely because your boyfriend doesn’t spend time with you, it’s time to push the pause button. Here’s what to do when your boyfriend doesn’t make time for you or your relationship.

Commercial art — Advertising and magazine layout can be done as freelance work Computer animation — Visual thinkers would be very good at this field, but there is more competition in this field than in business or industrial computer programming. Computer programming — Jobs available especially in industrial automation, software design, business computers, communications and network systems Computer-troubleshooter and repair — Can visualize problems in computers and networks Drafting — Engineering drawings and computer aided drafting.

This job can offer many opportunities. Drafting is an excellent portal of entry for many interesting technical jobs. Equipment designing — Many industries, often a person starts as a draftsman and then moves into designing factory equipment Factory maintenance — Repairs and fixes factory equipment Handcrafts of many different types such as wood carving, jewelry making, ceramics, etc. Laboratory technician — Who modifies and builds specialized lab equipment Photography — Still and video, TV cameraman can be done as freelance work Small appliance and lawnmower repair — Can make a nice local business Video game designer — Jobs are scarce and the field is overcrowded.

Web page design — Find a good niche market can be done as freelance work Good Jobs for Non-Visual Thinkers— Accounting — Get very good in a specialized field such as income taxes Bank Teller — Very accurate money counting, much less demand on short-term working memory than a busy cashier who mostly makes change quickly Clerk and filing jobs — knows where every file is Computer programming — Less visual types can be done as freelance work Copy editor — Corrects manuscripts.

Many individuals freelance for larger publishers Engineering — Electrical, electronic and chemical engineering Inventory control — Keeps track of merchandise stocked in a store Journalist — Very accurate facts, can be done as freelance Laboratory technician — Running laboratory equipment Library science — reference librarian. Help individuals find information in the library or on the Internet.

Physicist or mathematician — There are very few jobs in these fields. Only the very brilliant can get and keep jobs. Statistician — Work in many different fields such as research, census bureau, industrial quality control, U. Taxi driver — Knows where every street is Telemarketing — Get to repeat the same thing over and over, selling on the telephone.

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Relationships are all about communication. This adversely affects the important quality of empathy, which is vital to a successful and fulfilling relationship. People involved in relationships with a mindblind partner report feeling invalidated, unsupported, unheard, unknown and uncared for. They suffer from severe, ongoing emotional deprivation that results in depression, loneliness, anger, low self-esteem, emotional breakdown, PTSD and physical illness.

Many study the words and behavior of NT people around them, and copy it. They learn exactly what they should do and say in a romantic relationship, since none of it comes naturally to them.

Yep, uncomfortable title. But sadly, these are subjects that I feel we have a responsibility to talk about. Today, I’m going to share some habits that I’ve seen in a wide variety of contexts: some of them in my career in education (mainstream and special), some of them from people dealing with me as a man [ ].

Aspie Writer My wife asked me to write a brief blog post for our anniversary. Shocked that she would ask me to contribute to her blog and honored that she would include me in this very personal part of her life. Her writing is part of the means by which she is using to define who she herself is. Aspies almost always say what they mean and mean what they say. But if you have any preconceived notions of what an Autistic person should look or act like, go ahead and toss those out right now.

There is NO way to tell an Autistic person by simply looking at them. So in retrospect, it was one of the few times in our marriage that my wife could say I was right about something! My wife is a beautiful, intelligent, extremely loyal and devoted person. You would say, wow how could I get her number? My wife is literally the most intelligent person I know. She has a seemingly inexhaustible ability to retain information. She remembers everything she hears and most of what she reads.

She can research something so completely, that she will OWN the subject. She danced to the beat of her own drum so to speak.

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